I've never had this problem before the last few months:

Cannot single out the thoughts I want to think due to the noisy thoughts leftover from work/worrying about the store.

Problem.

The answer is a joyful noise.

Tell me about a broken heart.

Not the last one, but maybe the one before it... or before that one. Maybe the first one. Or the worst one. Or the way she smelled after the goodbye following the first kiss. When was the last time you saw her? When did you decide she wasn't so important? When did you decide the blonde would be dumb? How to adults carry on with so much baggage when I forgot how to love after the only heartbreak? Let me be honest about the only truth there is: I don't know what I'm doing.

Forget about me, for a second, here. Let yourself face the window and tell me about the way you did the things we've done, and how it was different, but how there is still room in your heart to learn to love differently. Can this be done? We sing together, a song irrhythmic and lonesome, worried and hurried and precious and simply ours. This is the song we started singing, with no interest in a duet. But the more you sang about the broken heart, the more I wanted to be the one to mend it, the more I wanted to clip your wings, and teach you that you don't need anything but fresh air to fly.

I remember tight rope strings snapping and reminding me what I was after and I remember how sorry I was when the silence set in, but I also remember the love flowing through my circulatory system like lightning wondering how long I could feel so good and this is why we love: to light up and turn on the world.

feel me?

Horoscopes from prophet paul

Just because it's completely vague and could apply to most things does not mean I'm not amazed when it applies perfectly.....

"Aquarius: You don't need a reason to prove yourself. You'll do it just because you feel like it. You'll surprise yourself. You might find out that you can be strong without any of the things you thought were making you stronger." 

Interesting. Question to ask myself... what do I feel "[makes]" me strong?

and, also:

"Aquarius: Despite all you've experienced, you still will maintain the hope of the innocent and the faith of the uninitiated. You will see parts of life that are precious, wondrous, and beautiful."

Obviously.

Because I'm feeling so much better...

You're right: I look for things to be sad about.

Truth is, I think this is because for most of my life I did have a lot to be sad about. And when others could not bare their own sadnesses, I would absorb it and carry it for them. It was always someone's sadness to live in and work through. It was a choice. That's the gift. It is always ever only a choice we make to be the person who deals in these sadnesses (or anger, or what have yous). You can ask me anything... I've heard it before. This is my gift... my book of other people's sadnesses... open any page... I will read it to you without names. Somehow, we will get through this. It's always us. You don't have to be alone. The soundtrack to my life is just laughter and crying... something of a symphony. The last few months there has just been so much noise that I almost forgot how to listen. The world is so very loud...

But if I am quiet in the rolling fields, if I am attuned and receptive, if I am still... my natural state is laughter. Maybe now the issue is that I am not sad, but only missing a few things I need to find the silence. Right now I am listening to lyrically profound rap tunes and eating applesauce, dancing on my unmade bed and the wind is making this incredible and constant whooshing noise and there is nothing but a good thing, God's heartbeat pumping the alphabet through my fingertips. I wonder about a book I don't know how to write, but I just think and laugh and keep eating my applesauce, bobbing my head back and forth, letting the wind dance within me, think about the good vibes we give each other, think about the man who made me a most perfect breakfast, think about my family  and flower seeds and harmful conversation and things that go bump in the night. Somewhere in the darkness, there is a monster under the bed just needing somebody to talk to. That's a whole book right there. All I'm saying, is that when you can't make time for yourself, it makes it impossible for you to be of any good use for anyone else. That's the only truth here. That, and that there is a lion in the wallpaper.

And now all the sad songs have sick beats and all the things we built together are on the floor spread out like fresh records and it's new and recycled and it didn't have to go anywhere: it just had to change. Things could not be the same but there was an element in there that we needed to find through one another. I'm not worried about moving forward with You because I see the gift even when I am upset. There has been this hardness on my heart, even when I realized I loved you... just because there had to be, because that was how it was going to be. But I think my heart has grown back, swollen into something more capable. I want to make sure you know I feel better...

Fight your own cause. Where's your truth?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ca3hhFfFH-k

Why was it then that I felt better?

I'm not sure what it was, or why I feel so un-good right now, in this moment. But I went for a walk sitting still today, just syncing up my tears with the melody, trying so hard not to let God know I was crying. There's just something about lately that makes it real hard for me to know what to do with myself... I just keep trying to remind myself that it's not personal, that it isn't my fault... that it isn't anyone's fault. Somehow, though, I'm so sorry for not being able to fix it before it was this bad. Not that in general it's all bad...

Sometimes talking in circles is the only way I know how to walk a straight line again....

Too early for intrusive sirens, I'm buying poptarts at walgreens and saying a prayer in your direction. It's not the same anymore and I'm so desperate to make something tough into something better but joy is a hard quality to navigate under rough circumstances- even when you've got it, it's hard to give out when the whole world is crying but won't just hold hands. There's something beautiful in all of this, I know. But I don't know how to help you get that, how to help hold your judgments back or how to dry tears you're not even sure you're crying. People never know if I mean it or not, but I do. It's about the translation. You know? I stare at the marble and try to find the faces in the twists, try to see if I can find a lion in the white walls.

I want you to know I wouldn't choose any other way of living because I love it just like this.

In other news, I like the sound of Obama's voice.

Scripture says He shall wipe away every tear from their eyes...

Walking and talking and learning how to forgive just by engaging in a matching feeling, twins sharing nostrils and breakfast. It's not that you needed this from me, but just something I needed, to remember the closeness just because - not for having things in common or things to talk about but just the good feeling of another person existing. I don't know how to explain what I've been going through but I worry it's something like regression. I just hope something in God is willing to work with me on this lack of green fields and moments of silence. I'm working on it. 

But in the mean time, I'm grateful for living this big life, in case it ends up being a short one.

Patience.

There is something about the panic and the body, the way the two merge and blend and how the panic swells the body, becomes a body, makes itself something grander than that which contains it. I want to explain how much it scared me, after years of the war against me and the me finally winning... I want to explain how this felt like the biggest failure of all, how I'm still not sure what it was or how I let it happen, how it came out of nothing, how it came and went and hurt so much even once it was over. I see now why people need someone else to talk to... I'm just not sure if it would help. The truth is, I don't know how to carry all of this weight on my own, and the truth is, my arms are getting so tired. I think I just was happy for so long that I forgot what it would be like when it began to creep on back in. I know there's a darkness within me I cannot and don't want to fight ... meditate with the darkness, let me radiate my light. Things aren't easy for me right now. I want you to know that when I say panic, I only mean it a little. I know it could have been worse. Just don't tell me you know how I feel, or that people understand, or that I'll be okay. Nobody knows how I'll be. I just need the silence, I just need a song, I just need the air. You know what I mean?

BART musings...

This song, and this computer, and the way you smelled when you picked me up last night from the BART station, remind me of the summer I stayed in California and all the time I spent alone, and all the writing I did avoiding all the writing I should have been doing. You weren't with me yet, but you are with me now in those memories, seeing as how you are here now, pouring out of each line I'm afraid of writing, seeping from the inches of fear and magic and anxiety. I remember that summer being full of so much I wanted to forget, which is funny because now all I can really remember are solitary moments and the song I played over and over again curled up on my what some people might call a bed in Germany, windows wide open but hiding under sheets that weren't mine. Nobody told me it would be cold. That's what I remember most of all... how cold it was and how nobody warned me. That's the funniest part about the San Francisco bay area... nobody tells you how cold it can get here... especially in the summertime. Just like Germany, there was so much alone time here in the beginning, and especially that summer... so much time being worried about being too much and so spending all my days alonely. Somewhere between then and now, I've only changed a little, added some lines to my face and toughness to the heels of my feet. There are new Yous now... but less music. There's a dog and probably more happiness. My dream told me last night that there were things I was forgetting I could feel, and when I woke up, I was scared. But the truth is, I'm better off without it and I know that we'll have our time to set sail and go somewhere new. For now, this is still new for you. That's okay.

Anyway, this is what I wrote on BART yesterday in the back pages of my copy of Infinite Jest...

We left one another in deep silence often. I'm learning to forgive boredom, forgive everyone around me for letting me believe I were what they call somethin' else. It's her in the quiet noise next to you, but I don't mind, making jokes about girls I don't actually care one way or the other about. I make comments but I know how I feel is mostly apathetic, mostly concerned with my lack of presence, mostly unconcerned in general about anything. Who am I kidding? You don't read this anyway. Before I had my heart broken, my favorite color was blue, but I never told anyone. But it was blue, like joni mitchell, like how I was often, like how it feels when someone kisses you when you know they have a secret, like how you know they haven't deleted their memory yet. Blue like broken bones and like they say about blood before it meets air, like eyes tired from crying and apologies and solitude and how blue is the word "sorry." Blue like salt, like worry, like music you play on repeat, like the places you'll never go. Like when noone asks you what's wrong even though you don't want to talk about it anyway. Like the missing button, like what Robert Frost really meant, like poetry nobody wants to talk about, like pouring out, like melting. Blue like a bad joke when it's on you, like water tastes, like sadness (of course). Like you when you were honest, like real heat, like how it's hard to wake up some mornings, like sleeping alone, like psychological tragedies, like Alice, like you after me, peaceful and ready for better things. Like how change can be blue. Like how water isn't really, like how we feel better thinking it is, like the last time you talked to God without a meal first. Like anything else, quiet and tired and ready to find land.

Sunny days, chasing the clouds away...

It doesn't get easier and that alone gets so much harder to understand. I'm not sure where I went wrong, or where we went right, or when I decided to grow up. Or why I won't ever know how to grow up. All I know is that the more I miss you, the harder it gets when you go away. And all I know is that the longer I love you, the more confused I am when I'm sad with you. I just want to fall asleep on my parents' couch and apologize myself to sleep. I think that's the only truth. Right now, I don't know how to explain myself. I just feel a little bit less than I know I am.

Okay, starting over.

I just want to fall asleep on my parents' brown couch and apologize myself to sleep, forget everything I know and just start humming the words to all the songs I remember, only 90s hits and songs about self harm and sadness, songs about the way I never know how to be, songs about doing the right thing the wrong way, like all things, like all humans, like bad times, and making your middle children write right-handed. There's nothing wrong with prayer except when nobody's listening, and when Nobody is listening, and when nobody listens, I stutter, forget how to say the alphabet backwards, and talk in nonsense. Honestly, this is the only honest moment: I was driving through the roses on a two way street, but only going that way, and I felt the skin on my body. I felt the skin on my body. I feel nothing but that when the air gets weird, trees are too much tree, sky too blue to comprehend, all of it too much like something people don't think about God creating (even though aliens like us, we know better). Somehow, I feel like talking like this says more about how I feel than things that make sense, than words you know, than alphabets in order of appearance. My dearest, let me be the tears on your lips )though we've never seen our actor cry( because I like the way salt tastes, I like the way it feels when I can't escape confusion, when I know nobody reads anything I have to say, when I know I'm the only person who ever played that one game where you see how much you can do it without crying enough for somebody to hear it --- again, remember how you never asked? All I remember is how I'm done talking. The only thing that ever worked for me was silence. And I'm sorry.